What Dolapo said:
I am currently cheating on my husband with another married man and I am looking for an exit to my marriage of 10 years. I met my husband through a former colleague who was his cousin. My husband has been a verbal and psychological abuser to me and my son over the years, he constantly makes me feel worthless and turned me against my family and friends. I met my lover this year at my previous workplace.
After spending time together, we became intimate and my lover has been helping me come back out of the shell I had fallen into (my unhealthy marriage). My husband found out about us but we still find ways to communicate. I am working towards getting my finances together so I can leave my husband next year.
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Taiwo has this to say:
I got married in 2013. The first 5 years of my marriage were blissful especially after I had my first child. My husband became so caring and was always there to provide for all my needs. He kept the same energy after my second born as well, I couldn’t be happier. Subsequently, we started having arguments now and then which was meddling with the peace of our home. After trying everything to make things work out again, my husband suggested that we have an open marriage. I didn’t understand where that came from so I disagreed.
A few months after, I found out that he was seeing a lady but I didn’t bother to confront him. I replied to a guy who has always been in my DM, we met and started dating. My husband found out and told me we have to stop the open marriage thing. He begged me to let’s reinstate the happiness in our home. Unfortunately, it was too late. I am deeply in love with the other guy and we are still together 17 months later.
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Mercy said:
I have a high sex drive which my husband knew about since we started dating. During our relationship, we have sex at least 15 times a week. When he relocated to Abuja, usually visit him from Lagos every weekend and all we do is wake up, eat, sleep and have plenty of sex till I go back. We got married in 2019 and our sex life was still good. In 2020, my husband changed, he started complaining about my sex drive and how tired he feels all the time.
After depriving me of sex for a week, he ordered sex toys for me online which I found very useless because I’m not a fan of it. Long story short, I have anonymously paid a relationship blog to help find a guy who would satisfy my sexual needs. My sex life has been top-notch for the past two months.
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Za hi rat said:
I dated my husband for 9 years before we got married. People that knew us when we were dating were so sure that we would get married due to the bond we shared. Two years after our marriage, my husband told me about his plan to marry a second wife who was already pregnant. My entire life fell apart that moment, I thought the heartbreak would kill me.
Although I am still legally married to my husband, I now have an affair with a 37-year-old man who means the entire world to me. This new guy is asking for my hand in marriage but I won’t leave my husband for that new wife because I went through a lot with him.
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What Esther has to say:
Cheating on my husband is something I never believed could happen. Unfortunately, I did in 2020. My husband and I were just average earners. Although we couldn’t afford to buy everything we desired, we were neither hungry nor begging for money. My husband lost his job early last year which caused a little hardship.
I had to carry all the responsibilities for about 6 months which wasn’t a problem for me. My boss found out and promised to get my husband a well-paying job at his friend’s company if we have sex. It was after we had sex I realize that the bastard didn’t have anything to offer. I feel so ashamed and I am dying inside because I have betrayed my husband.
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Claire said:
My husband and I were 5&6. We were so in love that people pray for our kind of love both in real life and on social media. In 2020, I found out that my husband has been dating a younger girl for over a year. I became very sick and depressed because cheating on me was the last thing I ever imagined would happen in my marriage.
That’s how I also agreed to date another guy to revenge for what my husband did to me. I fell in love with this guy and we were always communicating. My husband found out and it caused a serious fight that we had to involve both of our families. I stopped dating the guy but the only problem is that I’m not sure if my newborn is for my husband or the guy.
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Nneoma said :
I had this guy I was always chatting with on Facebook before I got married. Two years into my marriage, he messaged me again on Facebook and we started talking. He often sends me his penis pictures and told me he would fuck me to stupor when we meet. My husband was on a business trip the first two times I went to meet with this guy.
I didn’t know my husband was already back in Lagos the third time. On that day, we weren’t going to a hotel like we used to, we were only going to a secluded restaurant to eat with one of his friends. My husband showed up from nowhere and scattered the table. Long story short, it led to a serious fight and the two guys started to beat my husband. I tried everything I could to rescue him but my husband won’t stop acting stubborn. Las las other people had to interfere before it got settled. I am still married to my husband but the relationship is not like it used to be.
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What Oyindamola said:
The only reason why I started dating Dimeji (now-husband) back then was because of his caring habit, financial stability, and generosity. I didn’t know it will lead to marriage because I neither loved nor found him attractive right from the beginning. Throughout my relationship with Dimeji, I was dating another guy called Soji who I intended to marry.
A year after dating, Dimeji took me on a trip to Paris and asked if I would marry him. I couldn’t say no even though I didn’t want to. Now that we are married, I still don’t love my husband as much. The marriage is like a cage to me because I wasn’t done on the street before he put a ring on it. I cried a lot the day I heard that Soji got married to another woman because I truly loved him. I know Dimeji doesn’t deserve this but I have dated 3 guys since we got married in August 2019.
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Khadija said:
I got drunk and fucked my husband’s friend last year December. Whenever I come to Nigeria with the kids, we spend a few days at my husband’s friend’s house in Lagos before his driver drives us to Ibadan.
His wife is late and all his children except the last born are in Germany and Australia. We had a lot to drink when having a conversation one night after the children went to bed, one thing led to the other and we started going at it. We had sex thrice before morning.
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